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Ever been asked to send nudes or sexy selfies? Yeah, who hasn't! Sexting is just one of those things that's going to happen, and there's no point denying it. Instead, the best thing we can do is educate people on how to do it safer, and to only to send nudes or erotic pics if they're really comfortable, and actually want to. When a Reddit user started an AskMen thread asking, "How important are naughty photos for a relationship?" it hit an interesting question, how do guys really feel about women sending nudes?

Ambrosi75 wrote, "I am a woman who hates taking selfies, especially naughty/sexy ones. I am not talented and I suck at taking photos. Would not wanting to send and share naughty photos be a deal breaker or a turn off for you? Especially when getting to know a woman [and] thinking about having a serious relationship with her?" And, the responses are really surprising...

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1. "I really don't care. There's a weird focus on sharing nudes and sexting these days that's frankly off-putting. If we want to see each other naked, let's just make a date and see what happens." [via]

2. "I'd much rather see it in person than in pictures. It's much more fun." [via]


3. "Not at all. In fact, I kind of hate how nudes have become so ubiquitous and expected these days. I think kids these days grow up with totally wrong and misguided ideas about what is 'normal' behaviour in interacting with the opposite sex, due to this new technology. Not sending them would be a plus in my book. Shows she has good judgement and foresight (you never know what a guy does with the pics after you break up). " [via]

4. "I've been married four four years and my wife has never once sent me a dirty text. Just not how we do things, I guess. Has never been an issue in our relationship!" [via]

"It's ultimately whatever makes you feel comfortable"

5. "Depends if the relationship is long distance. If so, I can see it mattering more. If he lives in the same city though... then no, not important or necessary at all. It's ultimately whatever makes you feel comfortable." [via]

6. "For me, it's definitely >0% importance, just because I'm a visual guy and currently in a middle-distance relationship where we only get to see each other once a week. However, it's not a huge deal, but it's a small deal, if that makes sense." [via]

7. "My S/O doesn't do photos or video - she has a professional job where her reputation has value. She has aspirations that she might run for office some day, and nude pics aren't something she needs coming up years down the line (by choice or by accident)." [via]

8. "I would rather share intimacy in person. Maybe in marriage or a long-term relationship it would be hot (especially as a tease leading up to evening fun she planned), but in the early stages of a relationship, it is a turn off. I should add that I am not a religious conservative or anything (I am actually extremely open-minded, especially in the bedroom), my views on this are just my own personal preference." [via]


9. "This is a really big deal. I agree fully. I don't do raunchy photos for similar reasons. If she wants to send them fine, I delete them almost instantly. But I do not ask for them and won't participate." [via]

10. "Not a deal-breaker at all. If your dude wants them and is pestering you, I'd take it as a bad sign. Don't get me wrong, I love getting them and sending them, but there's an excitement when it's unexpected. But, if my girl never did it, I would be fine with it because I get to experience her in the flesh. Way better." [via]

11. "Not very important at all. And when people do send them, I always just take in all the beauty. I do not judge angles or lighting. Then I permanently delete them because data is only private if it is deleted." [via]

12. "Definitely not a deal breaker, if you send a shot to me, that's awesome, but it's not necessary. It shows confidence and desire, but I think you can show those much better in person. But each dude is different." [via]

"I liked the physical validation"

13. "My partner and I don't send them because we're both extremely paranoid about data breaches and hacks. Flirty/dirty (but not pornographic) texts and emails are where it's at for us." [via]

14. Only reason I've ever sent and received those photos is because I liked the physical validation. If it was the only way I'd get that validation, I wouldn't be in the relationship in the first place. For me personally, it's not that important at all, definitely never a deal breaker. It's just something that's nice to have when you trust the person you're with." [via]

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15. "The kind of guys I know that would judge a girl on their naughty photos are also the guys who may be inclined to show off said photos to brag to others. That being said, different folks have different preferences. Foreplay often starts well outside the bedroom, and I've personally always found pictures that were risqué but not necessarily nude, to be the hottest. It builds up the anticipation for the both of you." [via]

16. "Not very, its really up to you. It can be fun, but it shouldn't be necessary to maintain your relationship. If you're romantically involved, odds are you're going to be seeing each other naked at some point. I know my S/O doesn't need me to send dick pics to her, but we kind of jokingly send revealing pics to each other once in a while. After we'd been going out for a few years, she started to send me occasional pics of her. Doesn't happen all the time, but I also don't need it." [via]

17. "Kind of a hassle. I have to put them all in a password protected directory, and make sure none are in the photos app. I look at them like once a year and usually because I'm bored and fiddling with the phone." [via]

18. "Sometimes if you’re having a shit day at work and you got a little tease-y photo of what’s to come at home, doesn’t have to be filthy naked or anything, but it’ll straight away make your day. And it’s just another aspect of a passionate relationship." [via]

19. "I don't see a need for them really, though in a long-distance relationship they can be sort of appealing - that said I'd only ever care for them if it was a well established long-term relationship." [via]

20. "I only send them on Snapchat." [via]

This article was originally published in 2017.

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1. Boobs. If your mission is to sext, you can't go wrong with nudity. Guys like full-body shots, but if you can't be bothered to go through the hassle of an iPhone boudoir shoot, or just don't want your face in any pics just in case hackers/the NSA/creepy roommates snoop around, close-ups are good too. I mean, not too close up. It shouldn't feel like a picture in an anatomy textbook.

2. Boobs, covered. To be fair, sometimes the suggestion of nudity can be just as exciting. Some strategically placed objects (or your hands) can get him all riled up.

3. Detailed, descriptive messages about what you want to do to him later. And by "detailed" and "descriptive," I don't mean diagrams. Use lots of adjectives (like "wet" and "hard") and talk in a lot of detail, as if you were explaining it to someone who's never had sex before. Also, throw in something about you moaning and/or needing him. If you still don't know what to do, here's a Mad Lib to help:

[person's name] I need your [adjective] [body part] in my [adjective] [body part]. I can't wait for you to make me moan like a(n) [animal].

4. A fantasy or a sex dream you just had. Just letting him know you're turned on will turn him on. Horniness is like yawns in that it's super contagious even if you can't explain why.

5. Tell him you just masturbated. It might sound kind of counterintuitive to let him know you just came without him, but the text "I just came thinking about you" will have him canceling all his plans, faking sick at work, and scrambling to get to your place.

6. Any text-only sext at an inappropriate time. Shoot him something sexy (not photos, just words) when you know he's in a meeting or out at a bar with his friends. He'll be all, "This feels so wrong." And it is. It's super wrong to have a boner while you're watching Jeremy from accounting walk everyone through a bunch of Powerpoint slides, but he won't mind.

7. A Snapchat doodle. Draw a Batman mask (trust me, it works for some reason) or even just a couple of carefully placed hearts, depending on your level of artistic skill. No matter how good (or bad) you are at drawing, he'll appreciate the fun.

8.A date night plan (with sex included). The evening you planned includes that movie he wants to see, dinner at his favorite restaurant, and then you're going to take him home and tie him to the bed.

9. Send him a porn clip or pic, and let him know that's what you want to do with him later. Make sure the coast is clear (and he's not at work or in church or something) and then send him some "inspiration." Maybe it's a new position you want to try out, or some light S&M.

10. Anything not involving emojis. Trust me, this is solid advice. There are very few ways to screw up a sext. Emojis are one of them.

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15 *Naughty* Picture Ideas To Tease Him (No, Not Nudes!)

So you plan to send some naughty pictures to your guy and have no idea about how to click one? Well, if you are really sure and confident about the guy and you want to send him some naughty pictures, here are some naughty picture ideas to sweep him off his feet! Have a look!

Sexy Picture Ideas To Send To Your Guy

Be it showing off those gorgeous legs or just lying between the sheets, here are some sexy picture ideas that will definitely turn him on!

1. Show Off Your Legs

Lie down on your back, cross your legs and put them facing on the wall. Click a picture of your long, slender legs showing him your sexy side! It will turn him on instantly. Send your boyfriend pictures like this and then watch the magic unfold!

2. Wear His Shirt

Take a picture wearing his shirt with a few buttons open. Show a little cleavage, because there’s something uber sexy about a girl wearing her boyfriend’s oversized shirt. In her guide on how to take pictures to send your boyfriend to turn him on, this one is right at the top!

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3. A Sexy Snap Of Your Belly

Click a picture of your belly, showing your navel with just a hint of your lacy panties. This one would surely make your guy go crazy! Who says sexy picture ideas always have to include nudes?

4. Less Is More

You don’t have to go all the way… Take a picture of the top of your stocking, bare legs or of yourself in a sports bra. These kind of pictures are way sexier than a fully naked picture and it’ll make him want more. So instead of looking for ideas for nudes, invest in these!

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5. Be Suggestive

If you aren’t completely comfortable clicking your body, you could be naughty and suggestive. Send him a picture of your lingerie or the hot pants you just bought. You could add a message like, ‘Want to see me wearing them?’ along and get his imagination rolling. You can be a lot more imaginative when it comes to sexy picture ideas for him!

6. After A Hot Shower

Click a picture of yourself in a towel right out of the shower. The droplets of water on your body would surely make this picture a steamy one! In our guide of how to take pictures to send to your boyfriend, this one is utterly fail-proof!

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7. A Classic Pose

This pose involves you placing one hand on your hip while you turn your body away from the camera and look back over your shoulder giving him that intense gaze. This is one of the most classic sexy poses you could send him and make him drool.

8. A Cutesy Pose

Lie on your stomach with your knees bent behind you and strike a pose for him. Stick out your tongue and let your cleavage show just a li’l bit. And oh, add some naughty words before you hit send! Of all our sexy picture ideas for him, this one is our absolute favourite!

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9. Bite Those Lips

Men love when women bite or purse their lips… It turns them on like crazy. Put a swipe of your favourite lipstick and send him a picture of your lips while you’re biting them. It will make him want to kiss you right away! So you see, teasing picture ideas work just as well on your man!

10. Play With Lighting!

Every girl knows her sexiest body parts, but it’s the lighting that will set his mood. Opt for soft yellow lights and a dark background. This will make your photographs look more dreamy and sexy, arousing him instantly! Sexy picture ideas are so much more than the clothes you wear, its also about other things that complement your body perfectly!

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11. In The Middle Of A Striptease!

Yet another great one on our list of naughty picture ideas, you can also send him one that gives him the illusion that you’re just in the middle of striptease. Send him one with your top pulled halfway off with your lacy bra just showing beneath it, trust us this would drive him crazy!

12. A Bird’s Eye View

You know that your boyfriend loves your legs, so why not make the best of them? Try sitting on the edge of your bed with your legs bared except for some high heels, and then take a snap of them. If you want to drive him extra crazy, you can also allow your underwear to peek from somewhere in between! You see, nude ideas do not always have to be about well, nudes!

13. Boy Shorts All The Way!

Just like guys love seeing you in their T-shirts, the same goes for their shorts! So why not send him a picture of your tasteful booty dressed in his favourite pair of shorts? This is bound to drive him insane! When it comes to sexy picture ideas, this one will never fail you!


14. You In Bed

Yes, something as simple as you lying in bed is enough to turn your guy on! So don a pair of your favourite shorts and lie suggestively in your bed, and leave the rest to him! Teasing picture ideas such as these definitely turn him on!

15. Bare That Back!

Nothing is sexier about a woman than her bare back. So why not send him a picture of your bare back suggestively angled? So show off that beautifully sculpted back and drive him insane!

When sending him pictures, lights and angles are your best friends. So try out our sexy picture ideas and bring some spice in your relationship!

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This story was updated in April 2019.

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Creative photo ideas to turn your man on
Creative photo ideas to turn your man on

Modern technology has benefitted many relationships in recent years, in the form of sexting and video calls while you’re separated. And if you’re looking to give your sex life an added boost, your smartphone can be a handy gadget too.

Men are visual creatures so photos work best if you want to get his mojo going. We’re not even talking nudes here – with a little bit of imagination and a whole lot of determination, you can make it work pretty easily. Here are 25 suggestions (just make sure you don’t send it to the wrong person!). Go on then, strike a pose.

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In workout gear (yoga pants, sports bra)
Taking off your high heels or stockings

High heels are sexy. Sheer black stockings and garters (or fishnets if you prefer) are sexy. Channel your inner Angelina Jolie from Mr & Mrs Smith, except instead of hiding a gun in your garter belt, you’ll have something much less painful and way more pleasurable waiting for him. Take a photo of your legs, while peeling off the stockings and heels and hit send.



Let’s face it, there’s a reason the eggplant emoji represents a certain body part. Certain food is phallic-shaped, while others are well-known aphrodisiacs. A picture of you licking a popsicle or a banana will show you’ve got a healthy appetite.



Are there certain outfits that he finds alluring? Whether it’s a nurse, Playboy Bunny, or pilot, take a picture of yourself in said outfit with your best ‘come hither’ look.  If you have props that add to the outfit, e.g. spectacles for the sexy secretary look, a stethoscope for a doctor, it will only add to the anticipation and the ‘role’. Did somebody call the doctor?



Hiding your (almost) naked body behind props

Strip down to your undies and artfully arrange your body behind a large book, a la Bridget Jones’s Diary, while you gaze into the camera. It’s not a nude, but he won’t know that – the suggestion that you could be naked will drive him wild.

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He loves it when you walk around the house in just his shirt and a pair of knickers so why not show him what he’s missing? It’s very likely he’ll get jealous of his shirt and count down the minutes till he’ll be able to drape you with his body instead. Make sure the shirt’s unbuttoned so he gets the best view.

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In a towel, right after a shower

Wrap yourself in a towel just as you step out of the shower, then snap a photo. Make sure you’re not totally dried, so he can see the water droplets on your body.

For bonus points, take the photo without a towel but behind the steamed-up shower screen so he still can’t see any skin and will have to use his imagination.

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You know how crazy he is about your long legs so why deprive him of it? Pose for a pix while sitting on the side of the bed, with your bare legs crossed. Take it one step further by wearing some sexy heels too.

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Stand with your back facing a mirror, take your top and bra off, look back over your shoulder, then snap a photo. Don’t forget that cheeky grin!

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It doesn’t matter if it’s a one-piece or two-piece, you in your swimsuit will make him think of the sun, the sand, the water and sex. Snap just a part of your outfit or give him a full-body view by taking the photo in front of a mirror.

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Just got back from a sunny holiday? Use that sexy tan line to your advantage. Take a photo of yourself in a bra (or even in a top) but push one strap down to reveal your tan line. Make sure you get only the tan line and your strap, so he knows what he’ll see next time he takes your bra off.

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